Tuesday, 22 January 2013

setia hujung nyawa

saya dah addicted to cerita setia di hujung nyawa. dapat tau cerita ni pun dari youtube. memandangkan saye nie orang singapore dan tak dapat tv3, terpakse tunggu episode diupload di youtube je. kekadang saye tengok dari tv3 live streaming tapi selalunye stuck jer. aniway, saye suke tengok cerita nie. first time saya tengok amar asyraf belakon. cute sangat lah die tu. dulu bila rambut kerinting, die nampak style and cool tapi bile rambut straight nampak hensem and sometimes cute too :) and the girl, nelydia, is also very pretty. saya rase dia nampak macam a bit matured for her age. tak sangka dia sama umur dengan adik saya. ingatkan dia dalam lingkungan 20an. dalam episod2 baru nie, rasa macam geram jer tengok si zain tu. tak abes2 ke nak balas dendam? oklah apapun, saya suka tengok cerita nie.. korang perasan tak muke amar asyraf macam seseorang? pada saye, muke die macam irwansyah pun ade..zul ariffin pon ade..hahha. tengok gambar kat bawah nie.yeker?tengok angle lah.kadang sama kadang tak.heheh ;)

Saturday, 12 January 2013

Complain Culture

just wondering why people like to complain...i feel that the complain culture here is quite "on". people complain everywhere and social networking sites are now the most popular platform for people to complain and rant. they complain on twitter, facebook and whatever shit there is. and you can see that in many of these complain-posts, there will usually be many likes..wth rite. i agree that sometimes people do need to complain. this is to ensure that actions will be taken as a result of the complain and things will further improve. for example, a service for a certain restaurant is bad. one customer then complains about the service. it is through this complain that things will improve and the customer service will be better. however, i feel that the complain culture here is too much and people complain over everything that they are against with.i see this as not appreciating what you have and not knowing how to be grateful. i will not object if that complain will benefit other people and will make a situation improve. nevertheless, it should not be too overly done to the extent that you complain over every little things or to the extent that you humiliate other people. what i mean by this humiliation is through complaining the wrong way. going back to the example of the bad service in the restaurant.
In noticing that the service of the restaurant is bad,
Person A: Approach the manager and talk to the manager directly about the bad service.
Person B: Go to the facebook page of the restaurant and post about its bad service.
Seriously i prefer the first option but i tell you people today will mostly be Person B. what they will do is that, they will complain on the company's facebook page. this complain will then receive many likes. In that process, Person B will feel that he is much supported. The restaurant will receive much humiliation from that complaint and people working there will be scolded. Person B seriously have no idea what mess he brought to the company? That complain may also discourage people from going to that restaurant hence affecting its business. No doubt, things might improve from this complain. But things will also improve if you are Person A. The point im trying to bring here is that you can complain but do not overly do it such that you complain over every small unhappiness you feel. this could make you be seen as an ungrateful person. also, you have to complain in a right manner. the goal of complaining is only to improve things. not more than that. For us who don't complain good job. Do your part by not liking complain posts. Thanks.

Friday, 4 January 2013

hey so nus results have came out a few days ago and my cap increased by 0.05.not a big improvement but oklah.from 3.75 to 3.8. not so good but alhamdulillah. i went countdown on 1st Jan with my parents because they were afraid that something might happen to me and my sister. so they came along. my mother said that was her first time seeing fireworks.. kesian mak aku. so along with new year, people will always talk about new year resolution. to me, i don't have to wait till new year for me to make a resolution. i can do that at any point of my life. yup so as for me, i have always wanted to be a better person. first and foremost, i have always wanted to be a better daughter. i know that i am a biased person. i am nice to my mum but not to my father. i don't exactly know why. i hope i can change. easily said, in my life, i am nice to everyone except to my father and i cannot explain why. i hope someone can help me to change my perception of him. besides wanting to become a better daughter, i also want to become a more pious person meaning i want to pray more.hahha. so recently, i have always missed subuh prayers because its school holiday. i don't know if there is a link between the two but school makes me more encouraged to wake up for subuh. its time for me to change. maybe because during school holidays i sleep late and its difficult for me to wake up early in the morning. so to change, i need to sleep early and set up my alarm clock so that i can wake up for subuh. not only subuh, i will try not to miss my other prayers too. yeah and my last goal is to be a more knowledgeable person in terms of religious knowledge and also the 'secular' knowledge. hmmm..that is all for now. and lastly i have always said to myself that this semester i will be more hardworking but this has never happened. i feel that every semester i am getting lazier :((