Indecisive girl I am.
I have left him so many times but I don't know why I am still with him. Just recently, I left him for three weeks. He made me promise not to contact him anymore but in the end, he was the one who ended up texting me back.
Sometimes, I wonder whether he can make a good husband FOR ME.
Let me share with you my HONEST thoughts about his values and attitude.
But first of all, let me tell you what kind of guy I am looking for.
I am looking for someone who can complete me. Basically, he needs to have what I am lacking. In short, he has to cover up my flaws and I will cover up his. In terms of interests, I think, he needs to at least make an attempt to show that he is somehow interested in my interests though I do not need him to be trying hard because that will seem awkward. I once got to know this guy. Just because he knows that I am from NUS, he talked about intellectual stuff with me and ask me all the chimp questions thinking that I am into discussing intellectual topics. C'mon. I have had enough discussing academic topics in school. Now you want to bring it outside? OMG.
In terms of views, I will expect him to roughly have the same views as me. It doesn't have to be exactly the same and I expect him to have a different perspective and views regarding certain issues which will encourage me to think from a different light. But then again, it can't be too different such that it cause us having a lot of conflicts, argument, misunderstandings, etc. I understand that my partner grows up in a different family setting, mix with different kinds of people and have a different love life from me so it is somehow acceptable that he should at least think a bit differently from me.
To be continued....
